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things i wanna say to my wife ! (this can also be for u kiddos <3)

deadkittyboy • Jan 07, 2026 @ 10:39pm

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even if you have physical scars on you, you’re still beautiful. it shows the battles youve gone through. even if people think youre bad dont listen to them. they dont know what youre doing through, plus why would it matter? you know how you are, not them. just because you’re a crybaby doesnt mean youre weak. it shows you have emotions and arent afraid to show it. dont let people judge you on how you act/are. they don’t know if you act more carefree or kinder with other people. just because you have a bad addiction or a horrible activity doesnt make you “disgusting” or “horrible”. everyone has at least 1 bad thing/addiction that they do/have. dont be ashamed, its apart of life. just because someone says their life, trauma, or mental health is worse doesnt mean youre weak shouldn’t talk to someone. its not a competition on whos worser. talk to somone, even if its something small. someone called you weird? thats fine. everyones weird in their own way. you wanna disappear and not live? think about the people you talk to everyday a lot. the ones who were there for you when you first joined something. theyll cry and possibly try to end themselves as well. i love you all so so so so much. vent if you need to. im here for all you kiddos (and my beautiful wife as well). i love you all ! <3 asher / dad / your husband (your husband is directed to kye <3)

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