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b2rrygnb_n1ghtshad3 • Dec 16, 2025 @ 6:13pm

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So.. If I need to make this clearer then glass.. I DO NOT GO BY NIGHTSHAD(or my username) I go by nightshade (Xeo is for friends ok?) I know a lot of people that don't know me call me by my username so I don't really care but if u are my follower/friend FOR FUCKING SAKE PLEASE JUST FUCKING CALL ME XEO OR NIGHTSHADE... I know this might sound really rude or aggressive and I'm sorry but im making this ad clear as I can.. I don't like being called my username unless idk u and u don't know me but if u are my follower/Friend please call me XEO or nightshade 🥳🙌🙌 So let me repeat cuz ok? I do not go by my username I go by XEO from friends Nightshade can be used by anyone but for now followers call me that It doesn't matter if u call me XEO or nightshade just don't call me by my username (unless ur unknown or mod (etc) ok?) Anyways take care (＾-＾) ノ

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