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This lowkey funny imo (cw: talk of relationships)

sunset • Oct 15, 2026 @ 11:35pm

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So the first person i ever dated was when i was 13, her name was sam and she had aspd. We dated for like.. Uhhh 6 months? It didnt really work out for me tho cuz she wasnt very affectionate and i like affection a lot (we still chill tho) and it was sort of a mutral “i dont really like you romantically anymore but wanna stay friends?” And then the next person i dated had hpd. I was still 13 (older tho of course.) we dated for less time (like 4 months) just because i got kinda tried of her being super loud (i have issues with noise and she yelled a ton) she was really nice but eventually i broke it off And then the NEXT person i dated had bpd 😭😭 we were both 14 and he broke it off with me after like 2 weeks <\/3 (no hate to him we just didn’t click) But guys, do you know what this means? Ive dated ¾ of the cluster b disorders. Npd is all thats left to go 👀👀👀👀👀👀 All the narcissists better WATCH OUT cuz im coming (this is a joke pls dont get mad at me)

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