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marstheslug • May 15, 2025 @ 3:10pm

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it should not be this hard to pick an outfit i wanna wear my black skirt but the elastic halfway through cuts into my upper thigh and looks horrible (it’s tight instead of flowy and looks horrible with my body shape) and i’d have to wear a tight shirt with it to see the cobweb pattern on it but my dysphoria is so bad recently i’d probably start crying and i have another pair of cargos i got literally 5 months ago AND THEY ALREADY DONT FIT why am i gaining so much weight it’s not fair why can’t i just control myself anyways ive had to resort to my basic outfit that i wear literally always and i hate being predictable but i can’t afford to buy new clothes so yeah im not feeling great rn :( why can’t i just be a normal guy? i wish i was born with a flat chest and smaller nose and i wished body fat looked good on me, guys look good in everything AND SO DOES LITERALLY EVERY OTHER GENDER BUT ME BRO 💔

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