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lukathebroccolikid • Apr 08, 2026 @ 12:43pm

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background: (look at image) so I have a board where I write my thoughts down because it helps a lot. And nobody comes into my room, until today. sumarry-ish: So its the morning and I'm still in bed, and my mum knocks on the door. "Hey- ~deadname~ I want to talk. Can I come in?" ('I want to talk' is generally bad) and I say "Not right now. Im not dressed." (I was lying) "Well cant you just cover yourself with a blanket?" "Sure buddy. Just give me a sec." (a few seconds later she comes in, and I have forgotten about the board) Shes telling me about the day and leaves out time for a hair cut, which she had promised. And I was really looking forward to. When shes done and doesn't leave, I get kind of confused. "Are you trans?" flat out, those were her exact words. I don't answer. She starts walking over to it and I ask very polite to get out of my room. "It's okay." was all she said. I was done then and there and I ran out of my own room. I hid in the bathroom because it could lock, and I waited until she left my room. I was thinking about how much shit I was in then I remembered I wrote something down about my partners (which is erased in the picture) and by God I was even more terrified about that than my chosen name, trans, sexuality and shit like that on my board. Except this time, I can't "restart the computer" holy fuck I'm in deep shit. Shes gone right now, I haven't come face to face with her yet. Anyways, what do I do, I'm thinking too much to figure out what to do next, so yeah. Thank you guys for all the support on my last post. - Luka the Broccoli Kid 🥦

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