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UPDATE ON MY COSPLAY

rayisstuckinthebackrooms • Aug 26, 2026 @ 5:09pm

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MY GRANDMA GAVE ME AND MY MOM A WHOLE BUNcH OF PANTS SHE DIDNT LIKE (Most of them I didn't like myself, mainly from them tapering as it went down to the calf of your leg or them being above my ankle. I hate the feeling of that, and my mom just was pissing me off because she was like "oh, why don't you like them" and "why are you so picky". I'm sorry that I have major sensory issues, so if you wanna complain, go ahead. That ain't my problem.) BUT I FOUND A PAIR I MIGHT USE FOR THE COSPLAY (I'm still thinking because they taper 😭😭😭😭😭 and I hate itttttttttttttttttttttt. So if I find a better pair while thrifting, ima just use the better pair instead. I also want straight cut pants so it sorta gives off that long robe/dress style thing cuz I also REALLY HATE dresses.) BUT YEAH, ILL UPDATE ONCE I START GOING TO GOODWILLS AND STUFFS AND SHOWING WHAT I FIND

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