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cloudsoftangel • Feb 20, 2026 @ 9:02am

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Hey guys as you know Im a creator on Kandi and the last couple days my account has been silent because me and my boyfriend broke up.. We kinda had too because it was a toxic relationship kinda and tho I really loved him it was time to let go.. My friends helped me and when I did it I cried a lottt I did give him a note saying everything abt some things also I nvr got to tell him my friend Skylar gave me a note abt him and I'll try to add it but it said smth tht stook out on how I always tried to keep the relationship together and how I loved him and he nvr did anything and I always had to do smth first. I LOVE you guys with all my heart but right now I kinda feel like my depression is coming back and yesterday when I did it I almost had an anxiety attack. As most of you know I had depression and I have anxiety. Right now I kinda just want to feel the memories and take a break... I love you guys SOOO much 🫶 -Cloud_softangel

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