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leethesilly • Feb 08, 2026 @ 6:52pm

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(NOT A VENT.) I have found myself relating to OSDD a ton. I did this research bcus I felt like two other people were living in me. Long story short, there MAY be! Like I said, I relate to it a lot, and so I’m self diagnosing until my therapist says something else. For now, let me introduce you to us! Our host, Lee, is me! I control the physical body and thoughts. Our caregiver is Azure, who makes sure we have good hygiene and mental health. Our little, Atlas, is our trauma-holder! She’s basically younger us (6-9) when we lived with our father. I feel like we have others, but they haven’t shown up long enough for us to meet them. PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF WE COULD BE MISTAKING THIS WITH SOMETHING ELSE OR IF WE’RE OFFENDING ANYONE. As said before, I’ve (Azure) done a lot of research, and relate to most, if not, everything that is found as a symptom to OSDD. If talking about us, use they/them pronouns. If talking about me (Lee), use He/Him. If Atlas, She/Her. If Azure, Ze/Zir or He/Him. We’re very sorry if this was offensive to anybody because we don’t mean it that way, we just wanted to explain something that we found out about ourselves. We wish you a good day! -Lee 💛

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