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rotten_heart • Jan 21, 2026 @ 10:11pm

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!this is my opinion, I get it if you do not agree with me but its my personal feelings! -- ~ There is a "warning" or explaintion about this post not attacking anyone at the end! ~ there is this person with the handle @avocadocat124 and they i feel are being maybe a bit pushy?... Reasons ~ -- 1.) On more recent forums they have pushed a Webex link to everyone in the forum. 2.) One one of my forums/friends forum I had asked Webex my friend and they had sent in a link. i had said no sorry because it was private and they had replied with a " :( " face because I had not told them my personal business when it very well could've put me in danger. 3.) I had scrolled on the post a bit after and seen that there was a comment from them asking what had happened which was posted after I had told them It was personal. !explaintion! -- ! sorry if this is rude to some but again this is how I feel. I am not calling anyone out, I am just expressing my feelings to my peers/friends/newcomers hoping to be understood or listened to. and to be clear I am not attacking this person at all and I'm not wishing to come off as rude. please @avocadocat124 if you feel I am attacking you let me know the the comments and I will try to go more in depth about what I mean! if you are not comfy with this post please discard the post thank you! (EDIT) -- Thank you for agreeing with me. I felt like maybe y'all were gonna call me rude but I now see it's very different. P.S ~ this is not to offend, harm, or upset... etc. @avocadocat124 this is just bringing this to my attention for my peers. --

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