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dandy_dancifer • Jan 05, 2026 @ 3:22am

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ok so im not doing the sui$ide thing but ive thought about it multiple times because what is even the point of living if ur just goint 2 die in the end also guess who started cutting themselfs again!!!! meeeee! :( i just cant stand people sometimes and i asked @skatersfate to make or join a webex so i could talk to them about me cutting myself but when i told them they just said "dont talk abt self harm in here it makes me want to do it'' the whole reason i wanted to get on the webex was to talk to them about it but they didnt even comfort me abt it or say 2 stop and my grandpa recently passed away and i figured out i cant go 2 his funeral and he was really important 2 me and i cried for like a hour he was the best. i am sorry if this looks like im attention seeking i just thought that after that they didnt really care and after i got off of it i cried for a bit so just wanted 2 say that :c thank you guys for ur time ![](https://media0.giphy.com/media/qQdL532ZANbjy/200w.webp?cid=5a911871gqgkb4ue2ky2ic7rr6s7fw8bvx4kuabqpig1a5mb&ep=v1_gifs_search&rid=200w.webp&ct=g)

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