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wow I'm "so scary" (rant)

0void0 • Sep 02, 2026 @ 9:50pm

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So basically I was joking and calling my sister a name that I just made up in my head and she made some hilarious guesses on what she thought I meant but then she ran to my mom crying (she cries so easily its kinda sad ngl-) and my mom came in and said that I was bullying my sister (and I was taught that bullying was smth else, not what my mom says so idfk what she was talking Abt), and she called me a narcissist, and then I said that my sister deserved it and my mom asked if I even care that I hurt my sisters feelings and I said no and she said that was scary and shes calling my therapist. I'm ngl (again) I didn't feel scared or anything at all I just felt calm inside. the only thing Im scared of is my mom telling my therapist what I called my sister, it wasn't some slur or anything, its just a word I say only around close people bc its... hmm... a word you say... uh hm when uhhh in uh s3x Ed at least + another word on top of that (which was plucker and we are NOT gonna ask what I said ok and I was joking alr? bc around my friends we make these jokes sometimes and its just a thing between us and yh) so now I'm scared bc my therapist is one of the closer people I wanna talk to abt this the least apart from teachers and my family apart from my mom so I'm scared Abt that but otherwise I'm fine.... wait what if I just refuse therapy? 👀

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