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"your jst brainwashed, and your not confused. stop the bullsht" /ventish/

myz_bowz • Oct 20, 2025 @ 7:33pm

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just saw the update so uh yeah. btw this isnt a sh or suicde thingy just a lil vent / rant ig tws (there is prolly more so yeah) ; transphobia / homophobia hypocrisy :/ ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ so i keep seeing other trans ppl with supporting ppl or parents and stuff like that and it hurts.. not only that ut earlier today my grades PE had to do special stuff (like those pres thingys for mh and stuff and I got triggered) but on the lil forms we had to do it said preferred gender !! (an trans was on there and I put it and got rlly excited!!) and b4 you say "well myz that nothing compared to *bah blah blah* !" vro I live in a red state :( and it was the first time it was inclusive !! anyways other stuff ;; I rememebr when I came out my parents said stuff (like a few weeks ago) they said the typa stuff in the title .. and um yeah. anyways I was thinking maybe I shld talk to the school counselor but I dont know what to ask abt or say I just rlly wanna come out at school bc I'm so tired of she / her. im not a girl , and I never will be. _________________________________________________________________________________ little rant / vent advice is appreciated !

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