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Little rant about music and fashion:

grimmtheskeleton • Mar 01, 2026 @ 10:32pm

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AHSJJESONDIENFIRBRKEN! THE RAGE I FEEL WHEN SOMEONE CALLS ME EMO (nothing against emos, yall are cool af) ITS JUST I HATE BEING STEREOTYPED BECAUSE J HAVE DYED HAIR OR WEAR ALTERNTIVE CLOTHES! SOME IDIOTAS DO NOT GET EMO FASHION BROSKIS!!!!! OMFG LIKE I DONT DRESS EMO I DRESS ALTERNATIVE!!!! AND ALSO MUSIC HAS SUCH A BIG FUCKNG PART WHEN IT COMES TO WHAT SORT OF ARSTHETIC YOU HAVE- LIKE HONESTLY FASHION DOESNT DEFINE YOU IN MY HUMBLE OPINION, LIKE I DONTLISTEN TO EMO MUSIC- THE INLY EMO BAND I KNOW IS MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE!!!! IM NOT OKAY I PROMISE (I’m fine yall just referencing) LIKE THE MAJORITY OF MY MUSIC IS POST PUNK, NEW WAVE/DARKWAVE, OR PUNK. IM MUCH MORE GOTH THAN I AM EMO! LIKE AUDHJSBFIEBSJSBSBSJSBDSJS! IF WERE GONNA MAKE FUN OF ME FOR BEING ALTERNATIVE AT LEAST FIGURE OUTTHE STYLE I DRESS AND THE MUSIC I LISTEN TOO LIKE GAWD DAMN!!!!!!!!? Sorry, just remembering how my petty immature ass is. Nothing happened- I was just reminded that some people don’t understand how many things are music based subcultures. How yall doing? ❤️

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