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d1n0_ell1otPQC lvl 6 • Jun 03, 2026 @ 2:09am

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So, I wanna know something. I always hear trans guys saying they've felt like a boy since they were really little and that's how they're sure they're trans, but I didn't experience that. I grew up a very girly girl, being extremely feminine, and excited to become a woman and go through all those changes to become one, But now that I'm a teen I feel like being a girl is the worst thing in the world and I would give anything be a boy. So, have any other trans men/transmascs on here had this experience. Because I feel like I'm wearing a costume by being trans because I don't have the same experience, but I also feel like I'm wearing a costume by being a girl. I'm not asking if I'm valid, because I know I am, I just want to know if anyone else has experienced the same thing. ![](https://media4.giphy.com/media/ZNSzHf2UK6Ul87ktD0/200w.webp?cid=5a911871vklkymg38yh25ums2ba5h5hnr1mualmq75cj4e9j&ep=v1_gifs_search&rid=200w.webp&ct=g)

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