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deleted_user • Feb 08, 2026 @ 8:59am

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I'm afraid of coming out in my family. I myself am Christian and share MOST of their beliefs but they do HEAVILY dislike queer people. Up to the point my dad used to search our library books to make sure none of the characters were queer. When they found out my sibling was non-binary, it was panic mode. The house was miserable, and now we're banned off most socials. My mom cries every time someone mentions it. I'm afraid of being queer in this house, I don't think that should be normal. Basic rules are currently in this house, if you like women (I WAS a women, a while ago) then we're gonna drill you with questions, if your non-binary, your identity doesn't exist, and if your trans, your mentally ill. I don't know what to do, I don't wanna be afraid of my parents. But I have a large chance that if they find this out, my roblox is gone, my youtube is fully gone, and i don't touch kandipad until i'm older. Anyone got any tips?

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