experts on queerness needed!1!1!!1!!

Uh so like Is any1 here rlly knowlegable on lgbtq+ terms, like even lesser known ones??? I am havin so much friggin trouble its crazy Like ik im a trans guy and that is final n stuff, but sexualities r so difficult for meeee :(( Or if no one here knows much then at least a link 2 a list of them all?? Like i know i dont NEED a label tho and I can still just say "Oh im queer!!" but it makes me feel better and more secure in a way when its more specific ig??? Idk how 2 explain it Cuz like i thought i only liked the gurlies, but then i realized i actually like anyone fem-presenting... And THEN i thought some more and i also am okay with anyone enby too, and then RIGHT AFTER i was like... oh yeah and i cant forget my trans guys n gals and genderfluid ppl and others!! And ik u might be like... "Bro thats ez, ur pan!!" or smthn, but one, that would include ALL genders and thats uh... Not rlly the case, srry... and two, that still doesnt feel like it fits no matter how much i like the pan flag... Anyway, pan is outta the question cuz uhhh cis guys... strictly friends, amigos, buddies, my brotato chips. idk why Kory (who is my brain) decided that, but uh yeah. So yeah im havin trouble w/ that... And u might say "i cant find anything like that, make ur own!"... I cant cuz then it seems fake and i wont like it cuz it feels completely made up and not real, it only makes me feel better if some1 else came up with it and made the flag and the term and stuff... Ik im prolly pathetic or smthn for that but thats just how it is :[