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got hit with a wave of gender questioning!

lukathebroccolikid • Nov 23, 2025 @ 1:39am

guys, I'm questioning so hard rn. any tips, cause ik I'm definitely not a guy or a girl. I'm either non or a xenogender. AHH! omg. help.🥦❤️😅 EDIT: Mkay I think I might be: broc/broccoli/broccolis/broccoliself (No surprise there) ne/nym/nis/nymself (It felt right for some reason) smoke/smokes/smokeself (I've just always been fond of and connected to smoke in a way) NOT SM0K1N6! moon/moons/moonself (It also just felt right) grey/greys/greyself (Idrk why. It also felt really good to hear) they/them/themself/themselves (Bc I wanted to)

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