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th4t10tt3rth3r14n-i-promisePQC lvl 31 • Mar 31, 2026 @ 3:57pm

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International Transgender Day of Visibility!!!!! I love everyone of y'all /p if u want comment ur coming out stories below to help others figure out how to come out /nf mine: I was 12 and its was pride month (June) and we were listening to music and my best friend called and her contact was J<333333333 safe to say my mom questioned and asked if j was my girlfriend and I said no because we weren't then my mom asked if I liked her as more than a friend and I said yes cuz at the time I did and the around October 2025 I walked into my moms room yelled I'm trans then left her room and she didn't really care she just asked if she could help in any way ![](https://media3.giphy.com/media/kzbK4XgJXVyS3u2osQ/200w.webp?cid=5a911871jv6maxpeiwcy1frl0764bu3wz51jzdurrlhp53st&ep=v1_gifs_search&rid=200w.webp&ct=g) ![](https://media1.giphy.com/media/WTXdofYvFFhMTYhVKp/200w.webp?cid=5a911871jv6maxpeiwcy1frl0764bu3wz51jzdurrlhp53st&ep=v1_gifs_search&rid=200w.webp&ct=g)

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