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HOW DO U COME OUTTTTTT AS NOT CIS

s0up_th3_l1z4rd • Mar 25, 2026 @ 1:21am

I figured out i was gender fluid over spring break and now idk how to tell my parents bc it’s different form being like gay n stuff. They actually have to acknowledge ur pronouns and it’s not rlly a thing that I wanna keep to myself bc I don’t wanna be misgendered so it’s not smth they can js dismiss like before. They didn’t dismiss it ig they were js like cool. And? Honestly I kinda liked how normal it felt but I mean when I came out before it wasnt like a big moment or anything i was js like “oh yeah an Im gay.” And there were like “oh cool. Hi gay Im your parent.” BUT NOW ITS MY GENDER WHAT DO I DOOOOOOOOOO AAAAAAAAA HELP 😭😭😭 (They’ll Exept me Ik that but idk how to tell them)

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