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astroo • Oct 01, 2025 @ 9:32pm

so, my mom er tells me all the time she doesnt care if i wanna be trans, gay, bi, or straight, but she keeps saying that they / them and others arent pronouns.. and you can only be straight, gay, or bi, not pan, nothing.. ive tried to explain SO many times but she doesnt listen- i keep telling her they / them or nonbinary are basically people who feel like theyre not a boy nor girl. yet, she of course. doesnt accept it.. she knows im pan, she says that im just bi, pan isnt a thing, its just a thing kids came up with, bla bla bla.. i just wanted to rant abt this- idk why- just wanted to. EDIT : well, also, the thing is.. im questioning my gender 👍️ fun! :D and im starting to think i could be nonbinary, just not completely sure so im sticking with she/her for now.. very scary man-

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