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i have got to get GAYER

feybunny • Jan 22, 2026 @ 10:17pm

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I have to get gayer and my gender has to get weirder and more obscure than it already is. I live in the usa and things are getting more hostile torwards queer people here so I think the best thing to do about for me personally is to be more unapologetically queer and nonconforming. Most cishet people right now don't realize i'm gay and nonbinary, they just see a sort of quirky girl with weird hair. This new year i will be getting weirder and sillyer. I will wear my clown makeup out and about more often. also i will learn the art of making balloon animals. I will also try and get on testosterone because i Know i would look sick as hell with a mustache and then i want to dye the mustache pink. that's just my plan. anyways i love being nonbinary its so funsies and i love my nonbinary wife also <3 and i also want to get into drag! i have a drag name already i just have to get better at makeup. the only makeup i do rn is clown and bad graphic eyeliner lol. I might be living on my own this summer in a new city for work and im honestly so hype about it. i will get super silly with it! i'm turning 20 this spring im so excited to be officially no longer a teen tbh. In high school i was excited to be a senior so i could be the cool older gay that I looked up to as an underclassman and i succeeded and now i'm excited to be the weird eccentric nonbinary person in their 20s hooray!! Idk what exactly this post is about, I'm just happy to be a fruit and alive, even with everything going on right now. to anyone struggling right now because you're lgbtq+, it WILL get better and you CAN live your best life!

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