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brightest-bulb-in-the-shed • Feb 20, 2026 @ 7:56pm

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i came back to this supery doopery awesome alt to say i go by he/they, not just they/them (even tho my main says that) i had to put it on here cuz my mom doesn't know im trans (im a femboy pangender genderfluid guy) and she's transphobic boo throws tomatoes so uh insert that one blue emoji that has puppy dog eyes and begging please please call me he more than they !!! also i love being called fem or neutral compliments, i don't care all too much about masculine compliments as much so like i'll probs have a better reaction to "pretty" or "kewl" than "handsome" although i do love being called "guy" "man" etc,, thats kewl only my children can call me father tho lightbulb out! wait no lb not out it's kinda kewl that me and lb are both trans!! she's transfem and i'm transmasc ^^ also is it fine if you consider your kin to be a different person than you in another universe ig but you still identify as them in this one if that makes sense?? or am i just not making sense?? or is this the accepted thing(s) and im not catching on im not sure however, clover (my fursona) still uses they/them cuz we can't have my mom suspecting anything! /silly i reccomend @bee_noises if you wanna read any fanfics <3 ok bai

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