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coralzz_fangzz • Oct 07, 2026 @ 6:56pm

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Ok so my friend (i personally don't identify as the identity i made for clarification) is attracted to men/masc people and women/femme people. She's always identified as bi, but felt that it didn't quite fit her, as she doesn't feel as attracted to enbys/androg. presenting people. I looked it up, and there is nothing i could find to describe that, which i found surprising considering how close to berri and almond it was (just enby instead of masc or femme) and how well known those are... So i decided to make my own. Getting to the point: I introduce... Melonsexual! A sexual orientation under the multisexual/bisexual umbrella defining a person who is attracted mainly to binary men/masc presenting and women/fem presenting, but feels slight and/or rare attraction to enby/neutral/androgynous presenting people. I do understand she could still use bi, i know that bi only means attraction to more than one gender in today's language. However, as already stated, she felt it didn't fit. I tried to come up with an original flag, similar to berri and almond's as they're in the same family, so i apologize if it looks like the abro flag. The abrosexual flag is more like pastel than this i believe. Anyways, feel free to use this as well if it applies to you! I only ask you credit me if posting the flag somewhere, and don't act like you made this yourself. Love y'all <3 (Edit: my dumbahh forgot to post the flag 😭)

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