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d1n0_ell1otPQC lvl 6 • Jul 10, 2026 @ 5:38pm

I came out to my mom yesterday and she was accepting of it! She's gonna call me Elliot and use my pronouns which it great! But, after coming out I was all of a sudden very uncomfortable with my gender and pronouns and kinda my name. So, I researched how I feel and I'm actually Libramasculine! Which is when you feel mostly agender but also kinda a boy. I also found that he is kinda uncomfortable, so I'm going back to they/he, so I MUCH prefer they/them, but I don't HATE he/him. So for me that means I want you to call me they/them, but since my goal is to pass more so as a boy then ppl will automatically assume he and if it's in my pronouns I feel like it'll feel less ouchy. yk? So, plz use they/them pronouns! I am gonna continue to use Elliot and see if it might just be the big switch that makes if feel weird rn.

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