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tips for genderfluid people to get their gender across easily!!

zeep_zorp • Oct 26, 2025 @ 7:12am

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alot of people just say to dress like your gender, but i think thats stupid and enforces the gender roles that us trans people are trying to break. sometimes i wanna be a cute femboy or a cool tomboy!!!! for ideas, you could do pronoun bracelets if ur pronoun fluid but alot of people like me are not so you could just do a plain colour bracelet or one with your gender on it :3 another idea is star pins, more discreet than pronoun/gender bracelets if you arent out to some people and can be easily made as long as you have safety pins to actually make it a pin. you could maybe try to make a necklace with a changeable charm???? let me know if you make this what you used for it because i know its possible but i cant think of a smaller clip to use lolz. You could do makeup that changes how masc or fem your face looks or you could do colour makeup. if you have any more ideas tell me and i can add them!!!

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