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I'm questioning my friend choices :(

urlocalgooberhope • Dec 18, 2025 @ 3:16pm

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Tw? Not eating? My friend started being actually SO RUDE ahem ahem story time of todayyy Basically FIRST during lunch there's always a teacher checking if we ate enough so I asked my friend M: Me: do u think I ate enough would *couselers name* let me pass she's always so strict abt it M: why are u asking me just eat bro it's not hard Then I told her that it had a weird texture and I didn't feel like eating today even though she already knows that I struggle with that stuff THEN after she was mocking me for me being me and then I told her how when I joke it's not ok to her and she crashes out and yells at me but suddenly it's "ok" when she insults me and as said mocks me then when I told her that she pretended she didn't understand me and said "I don't understand what u are saying ur always departing like why" and it continued and the worst thing is that the thing I told her means a lot I barely stand up for myself if I usually go quiet the fact I did means I actually and done with all o this shit

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