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y4tt4_l0v3s_c4ndy • Jan 05, 2026 @ 4:54pm

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Hi Derek! My name is Julia! I am here concerning the users, charleynomula and mannynomula They both on Multiple occasions are harassing users, and misgendering them even though reminded multiple times of it, Charley, Keeps taking only the comments that threaten her and post them to play the victim, Although I Understand the THREATNING isn't okay, I saw those posts and saw that she was escalating and even starting the trigger. Manny, on the other hand is supporting them, or some sort of alt account? Not sure yet, But I'm concerning that they are both doing the same thing, With NO looks of stopping. An example of addressing this is this post, By Spark-The-Shark. https://kandipad.com/forum/miscellaneous/charleynomula-harassing-and-misgendering-93220515# I'm not asking you ban them. I'm asking for a few days of Fourm Mute, ( Meaning they can't comment or make posts. ) Just to give these poor people a break. Thank you Derek! Sincerely, Juila, ( Y4tt4_L0v3s_C4ndy ) ✼　 ҉　 ҉　 ҉　 ҉　 ҉　 ҉　✼ Edit- Anyone regarding the situation that would like to share what happened, Please tell us !

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