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echothegoober • Aug 20, 2025 @ 4:26pm

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Ik I made a forum post this morning but I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM 😭 So basically, there’s this friend of mine named Nugget (that’s not her real name that’s just what we, the friend group, call her) and she is SO DANG PRETTY AND NICE BRO. I might be feeling a bit of romantic attraction towards her, but I don’t know she feels the same. She’s pansexual, so that’s checked off, and we touch each other a lot more than we do with the others (hugs, leaning on each other, stuff like that) and we call each her “pookie,” (bcus why not) and idk if it’s just a friend thing, but due to past experiences, I’m scared she’ll be like J (gaslight, bullied me to a extreme level, etc) and Ju (gaslight, broke up with me just because i was, and I quote, “not what she wanted,” and was, “too controlling”) and P (hit me, choked me, forced me to draw us in disgusting poses, and more) so I just need advice bro I’m terrified

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