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forest_therianx3 • Nov 27, 2025 @ 4:06pm

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So yeah, I recently realized I’m gay. Like, I’m lesbian, but gay. It’s rlly hard to explain, I swear I’m not bi, I’ve basically been Les since I was like ten, I still identify w it, but I also identify with gay mlm, and I’m not trans. I’m not rlly cis either bc like I go by any prns (mostly femme and im biologically female, but ya) pls help me yall is this valid? 😅😭 Edit: I CREATED A NEW TERM FOR IT!! ITS CALLED LESGAYAN/LESGAY :0 I’ll come up w de meaning of de flag colors tmmr bc im goin night night now :) Edit 2: im back now! Ok so the top red color means attracted to femmes, and femmes aligned ppl, the orange one is attraction to mainly the same gender, white is for trans or nb ppl, the light blue color is attraction mainly to masc aligned ppl, and dark blue is for being lesbian and gay at the same time! This just feels right to me lol so if u have tumblr or whatever u can coin it! I’m not allowed on tumblr tho :<

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